{"id":58,"date":"2025-07-29T19:42:16","date_gmt":"2025-07-29T19:42:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.wordpress.com\/?page_id=58"},"modified":"2025-07-31T16:46:40","modified_gmt":"2025-07-31T16:46:40","slug":"how-we-work","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/?page_id=58","title":{"rendered":"How We Work"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns aos-slide-up has-background is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-536d4fa3 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\" style=\"background-color:#e2f0ee;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;padding-bottom:0\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"327\" height=\"411\" src=\"https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Solway-how-we-work.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-588\" style=\"width:520px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Solway-how-we-work.jpg 327w, https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Solway-how-we-work-239x300.jpg 239w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 327px) 100vw, 327px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\" style=\"font-size:12px\"><em>Picture: David Purchase \/ Creative Commons<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<p><strong>Our approach<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At Borderline we understand that you will have many questions and concerns ahead of making a decision to undergo counselling. Counselling provides a confidential, safe and non-judgemental space to explore thoughts, feelings and emotions. Our counsellors will support you in being able to manage the different challenges life throws at us, as well as working towards positive changes you want to make in your life for healing, greater purpose and wellbeing. Our counselling at Borderline offers a personalised approach that\u2019s based on your unique circumstances.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Although our counsellors have trained using different models, as a team we work in pluralistic ways to integrate different modalities that include CBT, person-centred, gestalt, creative, somatic, psychodynamic, as well as other counselling models that are appropriate to individual needs.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns aos-slide-up has-background is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-f0342b05 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\" style=\"background-color:#e2f0ee;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<p><strong><strong>Will my counselling be confidential?<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The issues discussed with your counsellor will not be shared with anyone else other than the counsellor\u2019s clinical supervisor, who gives the same ethical commitment to confidentiality. The only exception to this would be if your counsellor was concerned about a safeguarding risk.&nbsp;&nbsp;All verbal and written information that you share with us is carefully protected according to GDPR legislation to ensure that no-one else has access to it. At your first appointment exceptions to confidentiality will be explained and will form part of our contract with you.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"504\" src=\"https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Looking-Solway-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-592\" srcset=\"https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Looking-Solway-2.jpg 640w, https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Looking-Solway-2-300x236.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\" style=\"font-size:12px\"><em>Picture: David Purchase \/ Creative Commons<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns aos-slide-up has-background is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-536d4fa3 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\" style=\"background-color:#f0f5fa;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;padding-bottom:0\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1179\" height=\"2452\" src=\"https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/solway-sky.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-599\" style=\"width:503px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/solway-sky.jpg 1179w, https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/solway-sky-144x300.jpg 144w, https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/solway-sky-492x1024.jpg 492w, https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/solway-sky-768x1597.jpg 768w, https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/solway-sky-739x1536.jpg 739w, https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/solway-sky-985x2048.jpg 985w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1179px) 100vw, 1179px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\" style=\"font-size:12px\"><em>Picture <span class=\"wp-rich-text-font-awesome-icon wp-font-awesome-icon\"><svg aria-hidden=\"true\" focusable=\"false\" data-prefix=\"fas\" data-icon=\"copyright\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-copyright \" role=\"img\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M256 512a256 256 0 1 0 0-512 256 256 0 1 0 0 512zM205.1 306.9c28.1 28.1 73.7 28.1 101.8 0 9.4-9.4 24.6-9.4 33.9 0s9.4 24.6 0 33.9c-46.9 46.9-122.8 46.9-169.7 0s-46.9-122.8 0-169.7 122.8-46.9 169.7 0c9.4 9.4 9.4 24.6 0 33.9s-24.6 9.4-33.9 0c-28.1-28.1-73.7-28.1-101.8 0s-28.1 73.7 0 101.8z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span> Kitty Towsey<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<p><strong><strong>How much will my therapy cost?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When providing inclusive and accessible counselling with professionally trained therapists, our aim is to offer affordable and low-cost options. Our flexible approach allows us to work with you on an individual basis to agree a contribution that\u2019s within reach and sustainable for your counselling journey. We want to ensure that cost is never a barrier to accessing quality counselling so that you can begin your pathway towards healing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>When can I see a counsellor?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We offer flexible times Monday to Friday. We also have some limited spaces for online or telephone counselling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Counselling takes place at a time that is mutually convenient to you and your counsellor. Usually, counsellors offer weekly sessions, but this will depend on an individual\u2019s needs and sometimes sessions can take place at fortnightly intervals.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>How long will my sessions be?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sessions are usually between 50-60 minutes long. This might vary depending on an individual\u2019s circumstances. For example, when working with trauma, the sessions might be slightly shorter to begin with so that any difficult content can be processed safely and without clients becoming overwhelmed. You will be able to work with your counsellor to determine what\u2019s going to be the most suitable arrangement for you.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns aos-slide-up has-background is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-f0342b05 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\" style=\"background-color:#f0f5fa;margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<p><strong><strong>What can I expect from therapy<\/strong><\/strong>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At Borderline, we believe that therapy is a collaborative process between you and your counsellor. In collaboration with your counsellor, you will agree therapy goals to work towards that are reviewed at regular intervals, usually every six weeks. This will help to support the process needed to work effectively with what you\u2019ve come to counselling for. In your sessions you will begin to gain insight into what\u2019s been challenging for you, as well as developing different coping strategies to manage those challenges and work towards resolving them.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unlike some services that need to limit the number of sessions, Borderline can offer a service that\u2019s more flexible and suited to client need. You and your counsellor will work together to establish how long the therapy is needed for and when it will come to a close. At Borderline we also offer a free follow-up session six weeks after therapy has finished as a way for you to \u2018check-in\u2019 with your counsellor.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1044\" height=\"1416\" src=\"https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/blue-sky-3.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-602\" style=\"width:484px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/blue-sky-3.jpg 1044w, https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/blue-sky-3-221x300.jpg 221w, https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/blue-sky-3-755x1024.jpg 755w, https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/blue-sky-3-768x1042.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1044px) 100vw, 1044px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\" style=\"font-size:12px\"><em>Picture <span class=\"wp-rich-text-font-awesome-icon wp-font-awesome-icon\"><svg aria-hidden=\"true\" focusable=\"false\" data-prefix=\"fas\" data-icon=\"copyright\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-copyright \" role=\"img\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M256 512a256 256 0 1 0 0-512 256 256 0 1 0 0 512zM205.1 306.9c28.1 28.1 73.7 28.1 101.8 0 9.4-9.4 24.6-9.4 33.9 0s9.4 24.6 0 33.9c-46.9 46.9-122.8 46.9-169.7 0s-46.9-122.8 0-169.7 122.8-46.9 169.7 0c9.4 9.4 9.4 24.6 0 33.9s-24.6 9.4-33.9 0c-28.1-28.1-73.7-28.1-101.8 0s-28.1 73.7 0 101.8z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span> Kitty Towsey               <\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:65px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text has-media-on-the-right is-stacked-on-mobile is-image-fill-element aos-slide-up has-background\" style=\"background-color:#f0f5fa;grid-template-columns:auto 32%\"><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What You Can Expect From Borderline Therapy:<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:32px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<ul style=\"background-color:#e2f0ee\" class=\"wp-block-list aos-slide-up has-background\">\n<li>Excellent counsellors who are professionally trained, qualified and experienced. Their training is recognised by professional regulatory bodies.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A person-centred and pluralistic integrated approach that can meet unique individual needs.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Flexible times for counselling appointments to fit around life and work commitments.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Number of sessions that are suited for individual need and reviewed regularly.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Affordable counselling based on your income.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Availability of online or telephone counselling.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>An assessment that can match you appropriately with the right counsellor.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/flower-1-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-735 size-full\" style=\"object-position:50% 50%\" srcset=\"https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/flower-1-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/flower-1-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/flower-1-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/flower-1.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\" style=\"font-size:12px\"><em>Picture <span class=\"wp-rich-text-font-awesome-icon wp-font-awesome-icon\"><svg aria-hidden=\"true\" focusable=\"false\" data-prefix=\"fas\" data-icon=\"copyright\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-copyright \" role=\"img\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M256 512a256 256 0 1 0 0-512 256 256 0 1 0 0 512zM205.1 306.9c28.1 28.1 73.7 28.1 101.8 0 9.4-9.4 24.6-9.4 33.9 0s9.4 24.6 0 33.9c-46.9 46.9-122.8 46.9-169.7 0s-46.9-122.8 0-169.7 122.8-46.9 169.7 0c9.4 9.4 9.4 24.6 0 33.9s-24.6 9.4-33.9 0c-28.1-28.1-73.7-28.1-101.8 0s-28.1 73.7 0 101.8z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span> Kitty Towsey<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:65px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text has-media-on-the-right is-stacked-on-mobile is-image-fill-element aos-slide-up has-background\" style=\"background-color:#e2f0ee;grid-template-columns:auto 32%\"><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Taking The Next Steps?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:32px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Step 1:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Get in touch by phone, email or our online contact form. Once you have made contact, we will return your call as soon as possible, usually within ten days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Step 2:&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>An initial conversation will enable us to establish what support you are looking for and whether we can help. We can also answer any queries you may have. At this stage you will either be asked to attend an in-person assessment or signposted to another suitable service.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Step 3:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If invited for an assessment, this will help to determine whether our service is going to be most suited to your needs. If that\u2019s not possible, we will direct you to other services or agencies where appropriate. If we can help, once the assessment has been completed you will be contacted again when a counsellor is available<strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Step 4:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A counsellor will contact you to arrange a time for your first therapy session.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>If you have any questions about the above steps, please contact us by email or our online form.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"670\" src=\"https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/pexels-photo-12849425-2-1024x670.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-503 size-full\" style=\"object-position:21% 82%\" srcset=\"https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/pexels-photo-12849425-2-1024x670.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/pexels-photo-12849425-2-300x196.jpg 300w, https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/pexels-photo-12849425-2-768x502.jpg 768w, https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/pexels-photo-12849425-2-1536x1005.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/borderlinecounselling.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/pexels-photo-12849425-2.jpg 1880w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right\" style=\"font-size:12px\"><em>Picture: Pexels<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:100px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">\u00a9 2025. 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